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One of the top strategies in becoming a transformational leader is to lead with integrity. What does that mean, and how do you lead with in integrity?

It starts with you discovering that who you are as a person is your word.

In a world buzzing with external validations—our bodies, our titles, our possessions—it’s easy to lose sight of a fundamental truth: who we are as individuals is inherently linked to our word. What does it mean to have our identity constituted in language? It means our promises, our commitments, and our integrity, our word form the very essence of who we are.

Many of us mistakenly equate our identity with our physical state, our emotional experiences, or our social standing. While these aspects are important, they don’t define us. When we think of ourselves solely in terms of our bodies or our thoughts and feelings, we overlook a critical element of existence—our word, our commitments, our promises to ourselves and others.

When our word is kept whole and complete, we are empowered. However, when we fail to honor our word—whether to ourselves or to others—we diminish our identity. It’s in this violation of integrity that a fragmentation of the self occurs, leading to what we call “Self-Disintegration.”

The Importance of Integrity in Self-Identity

Your word is a powerful tool for self-definition. After all, it’s through our language and commitments that we express who we are to ourselves and to the world. Each time we make a promise, we carve out a piece of our identity. Conversely, when we break those promises, we lose a part of ourselves. The repercussions can stretch beyond immediate disappointment; they can severely limit what we believe is possible for our futures.

Integrity is not merely about being honest; it’s about being whole. It’s about aligning with our actions and words. When our words become less than complete, every instance of living out of integrity provides a kind of disservice to ourselves. We restrict our capacity to fully realize and perform at our potential. With each broken commitment, we limit what we can achieve.

The Ripple Effect of Integrity

Consider this: every act of integrity expands our opportunities. When we honor our word—whether it’s showing up for a friend, completing tasks at work, or keeping promises to ourselves—we open the door to greater possibilities. Each commitment is a step toward a more robust identity. Conversely, each act of dishonesty narrows our ability to see and become what we could be.

To be whole as individuals, we must strive for our word to be complete and unbroken. This journey sometimes involves difficult conversations or acknowledging our failures, but it ultimately, it’s liberating. Owning our word leads to stronger relationships with ourselves and those around us, creating a foundation built on trust and authenticity.

Embracing Your Word

So how do we cultivate this relationship with our word? It begins with awareness. Recognizing the power of your commitments is the first step. Start by reflecting on the promises you’ve made, both to yourself and to others. Consider how fulfilling—or failing to fulfill—those promises has impacted your perception of self.

From there, strive for clarity in your intentions. When you make a commitment, ensure it resonates with your core values and capabilities. If necessary, adjust your promises to align with what you can truly honor. Remember, it’s not just about saying ‘yes’ to every request; it’s about cultivating a life of integrity.

In conclusion, understanding that who you are is intricately tied to your word can lead to profound personal growth. By honoring your commitments, you not only reinforce your integrity but also expand who you can become. Embrace your word as the essence of your identity—and watch as your life transforms through the power of integrity.

I invite you to contact me for an exploratory conversation about what I can provide for you and your company to create 2025 with a foundation of personal integrity.

I can be reached at jody@leadersteam.com or at 415.948.6320. linkedin.com/in/jody-dasilva-43479a3

Ready to Take the Next Step?

To dive deeper into the power of integrity and how it can shape your leadership journey, join us for our Integrity Workshop. This transformative experience will help you unlock your full potential by aligning your word with your actions. Register today and start building the foundation for a future filled with personal and professional integrity. Your word is your power—let’s make it whole.

In conclusion, understanding that who you are is intricately tied to your word can lead to profound personal growth. By honoring your commitments, you not only reinforce your integrity but also expand who you can become. Embrace your word as the essence of your identity—and watch as your life transforms through the power of integrity.

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